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Women are a ship that bring people to this earth. It has been a privalege for me to be a doula to guide and serve women through there birth journey.

The word doula is a Greek word that means women’s servant. Women have been serving other women in childbirth for centuries and have proven that this support from another woman has positive effects on the labor process.

The husband (partner) can be the left hand and the doula the right.

What is a doula?
A doula is a professional trained in childbirth who provides emotional, physical and informational support to the woman who is expecting, in labor or has recently given birth. The doula’s role is to help women have a safe, memorable and empowering birthing experience.

Most often the word doula is referring to the birth doula, or labor support companion, but there is also the antepartum doula and the postpartum doula. In the following information, the word doula will be referring to the labor doula. Doulas can also be called labor companions, labor support specialist, labor support professional, birth assistants or labor assistants.

What does a doula do?
Most doula and client relationships begin a few months before the baby is due. During this time, they establish a relationship that gives the mother complete freedom to ask questions, express fears and concerns, and take an active role in creating a birth plan. Most doulas make themselves available to the mother by phone to answer questions or explain any developments that may arise in pregnancy. Doulas do not provide any type of medical care. However, they are knowledgeable in the medical aspect of labor and delivery so they can help their clients get a better understanding of procedures and complications that may arise in late pregnancy or during delivery.

During delivery, doulas are in constant, close proximity to the mother at all times. They can provide comfort with pain relief techniques, such as breathing, relaxing, massage and laboring positions. Doulas also encourage participation from the partner and offer reassurance. A doula acts as an advocate for the mother, encouraging her in her desires for her birth. The goal of a doula is to help the mother have a positive and safe birth experience, whether the mother wants an un-medicated birth or is having a planned cesarean birth.

After the birth, many labor doulas will spend a short time helping mothers begin the breastfeeding process and encouraging bonding between the new baby and family members.

What are the benefits of having a doula?
Numerous studies have revealed the benefits of having a doula present during labor. A recent Cochrane Review, Continuous Support for Women During Childbirth, revealed a very high number of positive birth outcomes when a doula was present. When a doula was present, women were less likely to have pain relief medications administered, less likely to have a cesarean birth, and reported having a more positive childbirth experience.

Other studies have shown that having a doula as part of the birth team decreases the overall cesarean rate by 50%, the length of labor by 25%, the use of oxytocin by 40% and the request for an epidural by 60%2.

Doulas often use the power of touch and massage to reduce stress and anxiety during labor. According to physicians Marshal Klaus and John Kennell, massage helps stimulate the production of natural oxytocin. The pituitary gland secretes natural oxytocin to the bloodstream which causes uterine contractions and also secretes it to the brain, which results in a feeling of well being, drowsiness and a raised pain threshold. Synthetic IV oxytocin cannot cross into the blood stream and brain, so it increases contractions without the positive psychological effects of natural oxytocin.

What about the father’s role when using a doula?
The role of the doula is never to take the place of the husband or partner in labor, but to compliment and enhance their experience. Today, many husbands are taking a more active role in the birth process, but some partners feel that this is a huge expectation and would rather be able to enjoy the delivery without having to stand in as labor coach. With a doula as a part of the birth team, a father can do whatever he feels comfortable with at each moment. Doulas can encourage the father to use comfort measures and can step in when he needs a break. Having a doula allows the father to be able to support his partner emotionally during labor and birth and also enjoy it himself without the pressure to remember everything he learned in childbirth class!

Are doulas only useful if planning an un-medicated birth?
The presence of a doula can be beneficial no matter what type of birth you are planning. Many women do report needing fewer interventions when they have a doula, but the role of the doula is to help you have a safe and pleasant birth, not to choose your type of birth. For women who know they want a medicated birth, the doula still provides emotional support, informational support and comfort measures to help the women through labor and the administration of medications. Doulas can work alongside medication by helping mom deal with possible side effects and filling in the gap that medication may not cover; rarely does medication take all discomfort away.

For a mother who faces a cesarean, a doula can be helpful by providing constant support and encouragement. Often a cesarean is an unexpected situation and moms are left feeling unprepared, disappointed and lonely. A doula can be with the mother at all times throughout a cesarean, explaining what is going on throughout the procedure while the partner is able to attend to the baby and accompany the newborn to the nursery if problems arise.

What about other types of doulas?
There are three types of doulas: the Antepartum Doula, the Labor Doula and the Postpartum Doula:

Antepartum Doulas provide help and support to a mom who has been put on bed rest or is experiencing a high risk-pregnancy. They provide informational, emotional, physical and practical support in a situation that is often stressful, confusing and emotionally draining.

Postpartum Doulas are there to support you in your first weeks of being a mom. They provide informational support about feeding and caring for the baby. They provide physical support by cleaning, cooking meals and filling in when mom needs a break, and they provide emotional support by encouraging a mom during those times when she feels overwhelmed.

Some doulas are trained in more than one area and can provide service as more than one type of doula.

Finding a Doula:
The most important thing while deciding on a doula, is finding someone with whom you feel comfortable and in whom you feel confident. Most doulas do not charge for an initial consultation and interview, so take the time to interview several until you find the one that meets your needs.

Questions to Ask a Potential Doula:

What training have you had?
What services do you provide?
What are your fees?
Are you available for my due date?
What made you become a doula?
What is your philosophy on childbirth?
Could you meet with me at home before the birth to discuss my birth plan?
What happens if you are not available at the time of my birth?

Your Next Steps:
Find a Doula in your area
Talk to friends and family members who have used a doula

Contact Doulas of North America (DONA)

Read more about Doulas
You may find the following books helpful.

Mothering the Mother
How a Doula can help you have a shorter, easier and healthier Birth
by Marshall H. Klaus, Phyllis H. Klaus, and John Kennell.

The Doula Book
by Marshall H. Klaus, John Kennell, and Phyllis H. Klaus.

The Doula Advantage by Rachel Gurevich.

The Birth Partner
Penny Simkin

Your purchase supports the American Pregnancy Association.
Contact Childbirth and Postpartum Professional Association (CAPPA)
You can also call the American Pregnancy Association at: 1-800-672-2296 for a list of doula referrals in your area.


Mothering the Mother: Chicago Doula Project Video

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Jun

25

Energy Flow let Go

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Let Go
Seeeeeee
Feeeeeel
Ooooooo
Ahhhhhh
Ohhhhhh
Breeeeth
Beeeeeee the positive energy flow

 


Time for a PsYCHeDeLiC music energy experiance
Mir, by Ott

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Jun

18

Feelin Groovy (by Teri Dorsey)

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I am outside the box
and don’t want to go in
they still throw rocks

I’m feelin groovy
I live in my mushroom
Watchin a science fiction movie

I like to talk about it all
Listen to me dam it
This is a soul mate call

I am here come get it warm
But no one comes to dinner
I have leftover charm

My body longs for a touch
Slow death is the worst
and the pain is way too much

I feel it all the good and bad
I won’t care if you’re there
When I am happy or sad

I do this and that everyday
Tick tock, ding dong
I did not forget to pray
So
I’m feelin groovy
Nothin to worry about
I am all done with moody



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Jun

3

Teresa The Little Flower is Born

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June 3rd is the day I took my first breath on this earth.

My mother was the ship that brought me here. I miss her life force that guided my sails to move through this ocean of life. I ask myself all the time where did she go? Where am I going? The wind carries us here and there and then carries us away.

I was named Teresa Mae after the saint Teresa The Little flower and my Grandmother Lilly Mae.
I cherish my daughters and daughter In laws they are my female tribe who have brought many other beings to earth to exist in my family.

It is in all of us women to someday be accepted as a wise respected mother and women in their tribe, And we want our existence enjoyed and celebrated by the souls that are affected by us during our lifetime.

The gifts for my birth are part of my existence everyday.

I cherish my grandchildren’s voices, my two daughters endurance,  my three sons tenderness, and My sister Linda’s great luv for me and her sunny little face. And my friends who truly except my soul and life energy.

I value truth, love, peace, faith, hope, joy, forgiveness, comfort, sleep, belief, healing, wisdom, pleasure, orgasm, breathing, colors, seeing, eye contact, hearing, touching, laughing, crying, tasting, licking, and creating.

I enjoy salt water on my lips and soaking in the ocean, a bird singing, a waterfall or rain washing me, a foot and back rub by one who connects to body energy, a meal made by a lover of food, a smile just for me, encouragement, and a song or poem inspired by my true life force.
I am eternal in experience, dreams and memories.


I Am thankful for my birthday gifts

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May

31

When Grandma (by Teri Dorsey)

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When Grandma rocks my little heart settles in her song

my tears are swallowed by her melodic voice

When Grandma cooks delicious smells linger all day long

my tummy feels sweet rejoice

When Grandma gives she opens up the door to Christmas

I am truly loved by Santa’s Queen

When Grandma wakes she plans with luv and joy

to guide me with her energy unseen  

When Grandma laughs my innocence is cherished

by memory’s that she holds dear

When Grandma cries she longs to be relished

always wishing that Grandpa was near

When Grandma sits I visit the place she is stored

were she is collected like a doll

When Grandma forgets I disappear,

she can only hear the lord, and waits for his special call

 

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